More About Me

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You don’t have to show up perfectly here; who you are today is more than enough.

My path to becoming a therapist began in law and entertainment, where I experienced firsthand the pressures of high-performance environments, complex power dynamics, perfectionism, and what it feels like to be unseen or misunderstood. Over time, I became more interested in what sits beneath the surface, how people relate, how desire is shaped, and how identity and experience influence how we move through the world. That curiosity became the foundation of my work.

As a Black bisexual woman, I don’t separate identity from the work we do together. I understand how culture, systems, and lived experience shape how we move through the world, protect ourselves, and relate to others. I bring that awareness into the room while also staying grounded in curiosity about you, your patterns, your relationships, and your story.

My approach is relational, collaborative, and deeply human. I don’t work from behind a clinical distance; I show up as myself, with warmth, honesty, and a grounded sense of presence. I also specialize in sex therapy and relational work, supporting clients in exploring intimacy, desire, communication, and the dynamics that shape connection across different types of relationships.

At the heart of my work is a deep respect for your autonomy and your lived experience. Therapy, to me, is a space to bring what’s been hidden, complicated, or hard to name, and to make room for something more aligned, connected, and more sustainable to emerge. It takes courage to seek support, and I’m honored to sit with you through whatever comes next.

My Values

Non-Judgmental

Non-judgmental therapy means you can bring your full self here, without filtering or performing. That includes everything from sexual concerns or fetishes to parenthood challenges, resentment, communication mismatches, or past trauma. All of it is welcome in the room.

I also believe therapy is a real human relationship. I show up authentically, with honesty, humor when it fits, and a grounded presence. While the work can be deep, it doesn’t always have to feel heavy. We make space for both depth and ease.

 

Sex Positive

I’ve always had a passion for connecting with people. Sex and sexuality are often relegated to the shadows of society. I’ve found that as a result, people feel lonely, ashamed, and isolated. Sex positivity means that all of your consensual kinks, relationship styles, and identities will be affirmed and supported. Sometimes, you need a space to have the most precious and protected parts of you validated. I intend to provide that space.

 

My Approach

 
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Relational

My approach is relational, meaning the therapeutic relationship itself is an active part of the work. I pay close attention to how you show up in connection, the patterns that feel familiar in your relationships, and what emerges between us in real time. Together, we use that awareness to deepen insight and create space for new ways of relating—to yourself and to others—that feel more intentional, supported, and aligned.

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Systems Informed/Identity Centered

My work is grounded in a systems-informed, identity-centered, and anti-oppressive lens, meaning I pay attention to how identity, culture, and lived experience shape emotional well-being and relational patterns. Rather than viewing concerns in isolation, we explore the broader context that influences how you think, feel, and connect, including the impact of systems of power and oppression. This helps us hold both your personal experience and the larger environment shaping it, while supporting greater clarity, self-understanding, and agency.

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Somatic (body based)

My work is also somatic, meaning we pay attention to what is happening in the body as part of the therapeutic process. Sensations, tension, emotional shifts, and moments of activation often carry important information that can deepen understanding of your experience in real time. By staying connected to the body, we can access parts of your experience that may not always be easy to put into words, supporting greater awareness, presence, and integration over time.